Resolved Question: Help I Fell inlove with my bestfriend!?

2 February 2012, 1:52 pm

So my Best friend (will call him Ron) and I have been close friends for about a year. When we first met we were physically attracted to one another but we soon started dating other partners and we became close friends. I broke up with my boyfriend in October and he was there for me making me realize i was young and beautiful and I have a lot to live for he was there for me 24/7 .. I would sometimes call him at 3 am crying my eyes off and he just made my night better! Well his girlfirend broke up with him a month later because he was moving to a different state. In this process I did the same thing for him. Now he lives in Washington and i live in California ... Well we would talk every day on the phone getting closer and closer to each other and realizing how alike we both are ,, Just talking to hime made everything better we also video chatted everynight .. With all this being said i knew deep inside he still loves his Ex gf and although he would say he loves me .. he probably loves me in a different way like a sister idk anyways ... Well he really wanted to see me so he came to Cali this weekend with his friends from work ! I live a hour away from hollywood so we werent able to see each other all day and he had to spend time with his friends aswell .. so that sunday when we were there at the beach saying our goodbyes i asked to see his camer he had been saying he took plenty of awesome pictures so i was curious to see what pics he had taken .. i start browning his his pictures and i guess i went to far because i landed on pictures he had taken with his ex girlfrined obviously hes not over her! So I didnt say anything and played it off when i got home he called me after he got off the flight telling me that reality had hit him and he wasnt ready for a long distance realtionship ... because we both had experienced a long distance relationship and its just so hard and he wasnt ready for all that .. since Mondayhes been acting so different so distant toards me .. We had so much plans and everything just got ruined can someone help me please should i just be his best friend and not try or should i try and win him over ... sorry for the super long story... Read More »